October 17, 2008
Baby Hungry
Ok I can't even believe I am feeling this way...have I gone crazy?? Well, even if I have I can't help it...I am SO Baby Hungry right now! I want to be pregnant SO bad!! I have always wanted a baby but, had no problem waiting until we were both done with BYU and were settled in our own place but, lately, I don't know what is with me. I can honestly say I look at pregnant women and I'm jealous (now I've reall lost it). I am well aware babies are expensive and being pregnant isn't a piece of cake but, I still want a baby. I need advice?? Anyone??
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I think that you need to be aware of the expense of a child but, things always work out when it is a righteous desire. I think that you just need to decide if finishing school is what you want to do or not because that is what is really hard to do once you start a family. This is something for you and Adam to decide when the time is right. I totally know how you feel about really wanting a baby right away and my advice is you never know what life is going to throw at you so if you and Adam are ready I think that I will be the best Aunt in the fam! (just kidding all of us girls are pretty equal when it comes to being the best aunt).
Whatever - I'm totally the best aunt! Ha!Ha! Talk it out with Adam. It's a choice between the 2 of you. The thing that Matt and I learned is there is never a "best" time to have a baby. Something will always be going on that you can say "We should wait til after. ." Just decide what's right for the 2 of you. Whenever you decide the right time is (or sometimes the Lord decides for you), then that's the right time.
Children are so wonderful and I love having Liam, BUT on the other hand it is REALLY hard to juggle everything. I was really baby hungry so chris and I talked about it (ALOT) and we figured that we would have to put Liam in daycare to help pay the house payment and finish school. I wouldn't change it for the world but it is very difficult. I for one know how hard it is to get over the baby hungry side, because I caved :D LOL. Although it breaks my heart to put Liam in daycare everyday. I wish you the best, it is so hard, but so enjoyable.
Oh girl I'm in the same boat! AH! Its crazy but then again... why are we even here? Have you read this years "world wide leadership training" put out by the church? Read it, pray and go from there! School is important but but the Lords will is more important. I think it is so important to be in tune with what he wants for you and you'll always have that to fall back on when times are hard! And you never know... we prayed and decided not to "prevent" and its been several months and I'm still not pregnant... so really the Lord must have his own plan and I guess we just have to follow faithfully :)
Ha hey you! I know the feeling!!! I keep watching babies in our branch and some at work and I look into their sweet little eyes and want one so bad too! It's beena ll I can think about lately ... until I spent the night helping a friend bottle feed her 7 puppies.... and then I realized that they slept more than a baby and that helped the baby cravings for about 12 hours. It's so hard right to know what we want. We wanna travel, we wanna have fun but man I wanna baby. *sigh* I just keep thinking that we'd better enjoy our alone time right now cause it won't happen for 20 more years. Everyone I know says, "I don't regret having kids, but it wouldn't have hurt to wait a little longer. Enjoy your alone time, travel, have a crazy job! Then settle down cause once you have kids... well, they're there!" Still-we're supposed to have families and I wanna have one now so that advice doesn't help.
I can't say that I have advice, but I can tell you that I feel exactly the same way! I am totally jealous of pregnant women, and I just want to be like them and have a baby already! Scott is nervous, but I am so for it. I suppose I'll stick to the plan and graduate first...boo.
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